Men get really angry when you think they should talk less.
Cis men do, trans men get *really really* angry when you think they should talk less (they really should though)
I’ve found that trans men actually wear two fedoras instead of just one. They have to be twice the douchebag to get their club pass and wow do they deliver.
Anonymous said: What trans men do you know? Because every single one I've spoken to gets absolutely shat if they don't fully pass as male, they'll get called dykes, and if someone clocks they're trans they run a huge risk of being raped so yeah fuck that
I know SO MANY trans men. As a trans person who tries to access any trans community resources, my life is saturated with them. And as a group, they are generally the biggest bunch of transmisogynistic binarist assholes I’ve ever met.
I’m an FAAB trans person, and I’ve had SO MANY trans men tell me that I am a waste of space, that I’m ruining trans communities for them, that I’m stealing their resources, that I’m not really trans, that I’m making my gender up for attention, and that “you should just kill yourself you dumb crazy c*nt of a girl.” I’ve seen trans men embrace toxic masculinity just as much, if not more so, than all cis men.
Really, most importantly, trans men as a whole make trans communities entirely about them and access women’s spaces and men’s spaces while trans women are denied access to either of them. Trans women experience virtually all of the violence in the trans community, but trans men continue to take up all of the space and resources for trans people, and continue to perpetuate transmisogyny in horrific ways.
As I said before, I’m an FAAB trans person. I get harassed in public about my gender, I find it incredibly difficult to get a job, I get called a dyke, and I’ve had more than one very very serious rape threat occur because someone decided I was trans and they needed to “fix that.” None of this means I cannot be transmisogynistic and none of this means MAAB trans people don’t experience significantly worse oppression and violence.
Finally, your message seems to operate under the idea that because trans men experience cissexism and often feel the negative effects of a patriarchal society believing they are queer women, they themselves cannot be oppressive which is HELL OF untrue, just as white queer people are have power and are oppressive towards people of color, etc. Nowhere in any of my posts have I ever implied trans men don’t experience cissexism, sometimes in violent ways. I’ve only affirmed that trans men are members of the patriarchy, benefit from this is ways other trans people cannot, have so much privilege over trans women, and can (and often are, just like cis men) violent transmisogynists.
So yeah, I’m not sure what you’re saying “fuck that” to, but I’d have to say that I know way too many trans men. They like to pretend they have very little privilege and access to patriarchy and couldn’t oppress women if they wanted to. So. Fuck that.
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I am so so so so sorry, I know I am the worst person in the whole world but that competition I haven’t shut up about ends in 14 hours and I’m in second place and cannot stand the thought of losing. If you haven’t already would you mind giving this story a like? (You can log in via Facebook or Twitter or by making an account but that is v stressful)
I hate myself for asking. I know I’m the most annoying person on this website but it would be great to win. I’m behind by about 50 likes or something and considering there’s 8,000 of you following this blog I thought, sure why not ask for the 50395035th time. (I’m actually shaking writing this out of a combination of competitive-fuelled adrenaline and fear of annoying people)
Thank you so much if you already have liked it and I promise, whether I win or lose, I will never post about this or do something as annoying as this again. ok SORRY BYE
do you ever get cuddle frustrated? Not sexually frustrated, but just get really frustrated and asdfghklg because you’re not cuddling someone right now and you just really need to feel someone with their arms around you and bury your face in their neck and just feel them close